date=11/19/96 type=background report number=5-35000 title=sri lanka suicide byline=matthew chance dateline=colombo content= voiced at: intro: the authorities in sri lanka have stopped all government-run newspapers from reporting stories about suicide. no official reason for the ban has been given, but suicide among sri lanka's frustrated youth is an increasing problem -- the country is now said to have the one of the world's highest rates of suicide, with more than twenty young men and women killing themselves every day. matthew chance now reports on what pushes so many sri lankans over the edge. //.act nightclub music.// text: a fashionable nightclub, crowded with young sri lankans, blares dance music out into the night. the people here are the lucky ones -- colombo's social and economic elite. for most sri lankans, the cost of a night out here would be as much as they could earn in a month. the gap between the country's rich and poor is ever widening -- a fact which academics like professor janaka de silva say is a root cause of the frustration that leads so many sri lankans to commit suicide. //.janaka de silva.// there are unattainable goals that these young people have which pushes them to the brink. and there are a lot of cultural problems. for instance, there is t-v, which shows westernized romances and things like that. then there are their homes, where parents are very strict with them and wouldn't allow them to go out with girls and so on. this kind of thing they cannot cope with. //.end act.// familiar problems to many, and not just in the developing world. but researchers say sri lankans appear particularly bad at handling the strains of modern living. this is a country where suicide has become endemic. more than twenty young men and women kill themselves every day. five times that number try but fail to end their own lives. alcoholism, stress and a civil war that has wracked the country for the past thirteen years may all be factors. but laksmi ratnayake of the sumithryo counseling service says the problem is primarily cultural. //.act laksmi ratnayake.// could it be that sri lankans are more emotional and that they are unable to cope? they are not taught to cope at school: that is not something that is talked about. also, our culture is such that we do not talk about whatever is bothering us with anybody else. we do not talk about anything that happens in the family with outsiders, because there is tremendous loyalty to the family. even in the family, we are discouraged from talking each other about our problems. we would never talk to a parent, or someone like that. //.end act.// although there may be no single explanation for the self destructive trend sri lanka, this isolation could understandably be the reason for many suicides. the government is taking little action -- although it has banned state newspapers from reporting suicides in a bid to stem copy-cat deaths. but critics say it is failing to deal with the problem head on. social stigma attached to suicide has plagued all independent efforts to counsel the young. and unless attitudes are somehow changed, health workers say the problem can only get worse. (signed) neb/mc/ac-t/mmk 19-nov-96 4:44 am est (0944 utc) nnnn source: voice of america